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Life, the Universe and Everything
What's It All About?
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Professor Tangent
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For every complex problem, there is a solution that is simple, neat, and
wrong.
Henry L. Mencken
Let us endeavour to live that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry.
Mark Twain
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Why Me?
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A cynic might simply ask, "Why not?", or "Got somebody else in mind?".
The bad news is that there's usually no satisfactory answer. The good news is that you can stop looking. It's not about
you, and your name didn't suddenly appear in the wrong column of some cosmic "naughty and nice" list. We're
all subject to seemingly random forces and universal
principles much bigger than any of us. We can study these forces, and possibly develop some appreciation for their
grandeur, complexity, subtlety, or other qualities. In some cases we might even develop some degree of control or find
ways to minimize the consequences. We go on because we have to, and because part of our nature as humans is to explore,
push limits and pool our knowledge, experience and resources. Our associations, families, societies and cultures are
ways we create something enduring and larger than ourselves, which helps us overcome, or at least endure through, those
things we can't control.
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Is it meant to be?
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I'm a great believer in luck. The harder I work, the more I have of it.
Thomas Jefferson
Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you're right!
Henry Ford
Perhaps it's meant to be, or not to be. Sometimes it's just a test. Some tests determine if
people will stubbornly continue despite having nothing more
than wishful thinking on their side. If they let it go, then they pass the test. Other tests measure determination. If
you succeed after putting in extra effort to show you're serious, then you pass. How can we tell if it's fate or some
kind of test? That's the most important part of the test.
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My God Can Beat Up Your God
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The worlds many religions are likely here to stay, and an important part of some religions is
“spreading the joy” to all who will listen. The essence of religion is faith, and for many, no amount of
logic will sway their beliefs. This also makes it difficult to win converts, and a few enthusiastic believers resort to
some rather brutal means of sharing their inner bliss with those not persuaded by rational discussion. In some cases,
it might be best to simply avoid discussing religious differences. At other times, try to limit the discussion to
sharing personal, positive religious feelings and experiences, such as how your life is enhanced by a particular
religious belief or ceremony, or how you were changed for the better. Try to remain as open-minded as you expect your
listener to be, and understand that the personal feelings, intuitions and experiences of others might be just as
meaningful as your own. Even when there seem to be irreconcilable differences in what people believe, sometimes they
can find common ground in why they believe.
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Declining Values?
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People value what they need. Hunter-gatherer societies need the earth, plants, and animals.
They may consider certain places sacred and develop rituals for gathering plants and hunting. Survival may require the
combined efforts of an extended family.
As civilizations develop, individuals start to specialize. Culture and social customs
connect unrelated people who become increasingly interdependent.
Technology such as email, credit cards and telephones allows creating virtual neighborhoods
that only include neighbors by choice. We can connect with others anywhere in the world. Money and the law become the
primary means of interaction as personal connections weaken. Corporations are a worldwide community of stockholders and
board members with few local ties. Less social interaction with those we depend on reduces the need to learn to get
along and work things out. There's a tendency to want to be like people on TV rather than feeling like part of a local
community.
As personal interactions and local ties become less necessary, we need to work harder to
maintain them. At least once a week, do something from this list:
- Do something nice for a stranger.
- Learn the name of a neighbor, coworker, worker at a neighborhood business, or someone you
share public transportation with.
- Buy a product or service from a locally-owned business.
- Learn the name of a native plant or animal, and something special about it such as the
meaning of its scientific name, it's place in the ecosystem, or characteristics that help it survive.
- When asked "how are you?", briefly mention something you or a family member
accomplished recently, or something you'd like to accomplish.
- Recycle, repair, or donate an item you were going to throw away.
- Learn about a local issue and contribute in some way.
- If you learn about someone else's problem, think about how you might feel and what you
might do if you had the same problem.
- Ask others what they like about themselves, or what makes them feel good about themselves.
Listen without interrupting or commenting, unless they ask you a question. When they finish, repeat back something you
heard that's interesting or important.
- Add an idea of your own to this list.
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On the Shoulders of Giants
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If I have seen further, it is by standing upon the shoulders of giants.
Sir Isaac Newton
Becoming part of the big picture doesn't make you smaller, it makes the picture
bigger.
Unknown
Many ideas grow better when transplanted into another mind than in the one where they
sprang up.
Oliver Wendell Holmes
Learn from the mistakes of others - you can't live long enough to make them all
yourself.
Martin Vanbee
We humans are sharers and learners. We add our own thoughts and creations to what we learn
from parents, teachers, friends and mentors, and then pass our knowledge along to others. 30 years after the invention
of the transistor, several manufacturers offered affordable home computers. The Internet and spam weren't far behind.
The first space shuttle launch was less than 80 years after the Wright Brothers first flight. We can't all be rocket
scientists or invent something as important as transistors, but we can enjoy the benefits and share in the
accomplishments by understanding to the best of our ability. Anyone can climb onto the shoulders of a giant. Some offer
their own contributions and others just enjoy the view.
Many people honor their heritage by passing on the traditions of their culture or society,
like those endlessly circulating Christmas fruitcakes. Honoring your heritage doesn't mean never changing. Each
tradition came from somewhere and took its place alongside earlier traditions. Our ancestors kept traditions because
they served some purpose, even if that purpose is simply to remind us of someone or something from our past. As we sit
on the giant of our own heritage, that giant can join others on the shoulders of an even larger giant. We can climb
ever higher without leaving anything behind.
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I Believe, Therefore I Am
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What we need is not the will to believe but the will to find out.
Bertrand Russell
Loyalty to a petrified opinion never yet broke a chain or freed a human soul.
Mark Twain
We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is
when men are afraid of the light.
Plato
Many think of their beliefs and opinions as part of who
they are, but what about the way they formed those beliefs and opinions? Before we were believing beings, we were
beings capable of forming beliefs. The philosopher Descartes went so far as to doubt his very existence. He finally
concluded that if he could doubt his existence, think about his doubt, and even doubt that he was thinking about doubt,
then he must actually exist. He simplified his conclusion to, "I think, therefore I am." Before thinking
about something you believe and how that belief is part of who you are, think about why you believe it.
Was there ever a time you believed something different? If so, what changed?
If you believe because someone told you to believe, would you change your mind if the same
person now told you to believe the opposite?
If you believe because you "just know" it's true, what would you say to someone
who "just knows" it's not true? How would you react if someone says the same thing to you?
If you believe it's true for you, could it be false for someone else? How could you tell if
it's true for someone you just met? Is there a test for this
belief?
If you believe because it's the only thing you know, how would you react to someone who
knows more than you and believes differently?
If you evaluate various options and try to choose the best one, how do you react when you
learn something new?
When people comment on your clothing, they're probably also thinking about your taste in
clothes or the way you choose your clothes. The clothes themselves are just things that hang on your body and don't
change who you are. The way you choose your clothes is a reflection of your personality. In the same way, why you
believe and how you react to those who believe differently define you even more than what you believe.
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The Meaning of Life
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Assuming there is an ultimate answer, what would you like it to be? If you could rearrange
everything to fulfill your concept of the ultimate meaning, what would you change? Would it be all about you, or would
you just be a part of something bigger? If you're not sure about one specific plan, what are some possibilities? Might
there be any unintended consequences?
If you not sure what the answer is, do you have some idea of what it's not? Either way, how
would you recognize the ultimate answer if you read it somewhere?
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